Part Six — For Parents6 Written for the parent reading over a shoulder, or reading alone the night before the conversation. This part is written to you directly. The student can read it too — there is nothing here we would hide from them — but it is addressed to you. In this partThe single most useful thing you can doWhat has changed since you choseThings families say, and what is actually trueThe conversation, and how to have itTen questions to ask before you pay any college feeAnd one thing to hold on to